Time to stop it again?

I donno which one is better

the one who can make you feel you are loved, wanted, and special
but when he closes the door, you don't know what he would do with this love...

or

the one who doesn't make you feel special or loved
but when he closes the door, you know he wouldn't hurt you...

I don't know
I don't know
I don't know

what if you try both, and you are not happy with either....

Is there anyone who can make you feel special and loved and when he leaves you know you are still safe?
Is there?